psychology

The test before success

By |2025-10-19T20:00:03+01:00October 19th, 2025|Accepting change, Anatomy, anger, anxiety, clarity, genes, gossip, gut, habits, Inspiration, life, love, Mental health, mind, Philsophy, psychology, simplicity, thinking, Thoughts, tired, words|

Have you ever noticed that before you start getting closer to your breakthrough in life the universe will push harder against you, The door slams shut, doubt creeps in, and it feels like everything and everyone is testing every ounce of your strength. This is not failure, this is the test before success, this is [...]

Why the ‘It’s fine to stay in bad posture’, Narrative Is Flawed!”

By |2025-08-12T16:45:24+01:00August 12th, 2025|Accepting change, Embodied Emotion, Emotional Experience, Immune system, Posterior oblique sling system, psychology|

We all have our own way of moving, this individual movement pattern is termed as locomotion. 'Locomotion refers to an entire organism moving from one point in space to another. This change in location requires energy expenditure and coordinated actions of various body parts. Unlike internal movements or stationary actions, locomotion results in the displacement [...]

Why chopsticks could save your life!

By |2026-05-22T05:07:06+01:00April 27th, 2025|Accepting change, anxiety, Health and Wellbeing, life, psychology|

Joseph Campbell once said: “We must be willing to let go of the life we planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” This is the thing, it is easy to see the way out for everyone else’s problems, but rarely do we recognise the same response and behaviour in ourselves. [...]

The vibration of your belief system is in your every action/reaction.

By |2024-06-28T16:55:17+01:00June 28th, 2024|Accepting change, clarity, genes, love, Mental health, mind, Philsophy, psychology, Thoughts|

“The moment you change your perception, is the moment you rewrite the chemistry of your body.” ~ cell biologist, Dr. Bruce H. Lipton So, Taylor Swift swept the masses and social media and what an incredible energy and tribe she created in the North-West. But for more philosophical folk who do we look too and [...]

Can emotion and trauma cause dis-ease and disconnection in our body/mind?

By |2024-05-07T17:45:10+01:00April 23rd, 2024|Accepting change, back pain, Breathing, Embodied Emotion, Emotional Experience, life, love, Mouth Breathing, pain, Peace, Philsophy, psychology, sadness, stress, thinking, Thoughts|

Gabor Maté says: “trauma, from the Greek for “wound,” is not what happens to you; it is what happens inside you as a result of what happens to you … It is not the blow on the head, but the concussion I get.” That, he says, is the good news. On Thursday 18th April 2024 my [...]

You are not your story, you are your belief system!

By |2026-05-22T05:01:07+01:00January 1st, 2024|life, love, Mental health, mind, psychology, Spirituality, The straw man effect, thinking, Thoughts, yin & Yang, yoga|

It’s not for me. I’ll let someone else do it. I don’t have time. I don’t deserve this. The best ones have gone. People will laugh at me. People will criticize me. It did not work, but deep down I know I did not put in the time and commitment. My back hurts. This is [...]

30 Great Skills of a Fully Comprehensive Apparatus Pilates Teacher!

By |2023-04-28T18:32:40+01:00April 23rd, 2023|Accepting change, Pilates, Pilates apprenticeship, psychology, transformation|

Cueing, you must be able to adapt to the learning style of the person in front. They may need more hands on, perhaps visual or more auditory descriptions. Programming should be exciting and hassle free for clients. I try to alter the foot-bar only once in a 60 minute semi-private. That way the client has [...]

Are you unstoppable???

By |2023-03-26T10:53:03+01:00March 24th, 2023|Accepting change, Anatomy, anger, anxiety, back pain, Breathing, connective tissue recovery, connective tissue repair, life, love, mind, pain, Philsophy, Pilates, psychology, sadness, stress|

Do you feel you are star gazing and not making progress in your life, work, relationships or body? Are you comparing yourself to others instead of focusing on your daily actions, core values, dreams and goals? Life is like a train pulling all the carriages. The train engine starts slow down the track and then [...]

14 Inspirational musings from a ginger chocolate lady

By |2023-02-26T20:09:27+00:00February 26th, 2023|Accepting change, anxiety, Breathing, classes, Embodied Emotion, Emotional Experience, Events, face to face, impact, Inspiration, life, love, Mental health, mind, One to one training, Philsophy, psychology, sadness, stress, thinking, Thoughts, tired, transformation|

This week I have been greatly inspired by a lady called Jo Fairley. She spoke for the ‘Business and IP’ Liverpool region at Sefton palm house. I did not recognise who she was when she entered the palm house, but complimented her on those funky shoes (as you can see in the picture). The green [...]

As the words of Belinda Carlisle’s song goes : ‘Heaven is a place on Earth’.

By |2025-09-06T15:32:39+01:00February 19th, 2023|Accepting change, anxiety, Depression, Embodied Emotion, Emotional Experience, Inspiration, love, mind, psychology|

As the words of Belinda Carlisle’s song goes : ‘Heaven is a place on Earth’. This week I had an amazing opportunity to teach Belinda Carlisle face to face whilst on her UK tour. I feel Pilates is an essential tool for all of us, as this can be used in many different ways. For [...]

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